Path: senator-bedfellow.mit.edu!bloom-beacon.mit.edu!news-out.cwix.com!newsfeed.cwix.com!newsfeed.yosemite.net!nntp-relay.ihug.net!newsfeeds.ihug.co.nz!ihug.co.nz!news.xtra.co.nz!not-for-mail From: zohrab@xtra.co.nz (Peter D. Zohrab) Newsgroups: alt.mens-rights,alt.answers,news.answers Approved: news-answers-request@MIT.EDU Subject: alt.mens-rights Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ), Part 3/6 Organization: MERA (New Zealand Men for Equal Rights Association) Inc. 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Zohrab zohrab@xtra.co.nz USENET ALT.MENS-RIGHTS NEWSGROUP Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) PART THREE OF SIX (posted to Usenet around the FIRST day of each month). by Peter D. Zohrab As creator of the Usenet Newsgroup alt.mens-rights, I'm providing an FAQ, divided up into 6 parts for practical reasons, containing: 1) A specimen, condensed Men's Rights manifesto; and 2) A Men's Rights Resource-List (in 5 parts). MEN'S/FATHERS' RIGHTS RESOURCE-LIST (PART TWO OF FIVE) compiled, and continuously revised, by Peter D. Zohrab (also posted to Usenet, SEPARATELY FROM THE ALT.MENS-RIGHTS FAQ, around the 1st day of each month) (N.B. THIS LIST IS DISTRIBUTED FREE OF COPYRIGHT, FREE OF CHARGE, AND IN GOOD FAITH, BUT WITHOUT GUARANTEE AS TO THE CURRENT ACCURACY OF ALL THE DETAILS CONTAINED IN IT.) Contents of Part 3 of alt.mens-rights FAQ: Fathers' Rights Usenet alt.dads-rights  alt.dads-rights.unmoderated alt.discuss.mens-issues.parental-rights alt.juvenilecourt.california alt.support.divorce alt.support.single-parents alt.support.step-parents de.soc.familie.misc de.soc.familie.vaeter  Email Lists ACFC To subscribe, send email to: acfclist@usa.net (Message in subject line: subscribe acfc) Dads in Family Court http://edit.clubs.yahoo.com/config/sjg?.k=99038f3a7aaE413H Denman http://www.egroups.com/subscribe?list=denman&vcode=28878 Email: mailto:denman-req-s28878@egroups.com%20INTERNET:FREE-L@INDYCMS.BITNET Fathers' Rights Assoc. of NY State, Inc. -- Empire State Plaza, P. O. Box 2202, Albany, NY 12220 Ph: 518-374-2346 Fax: 518-372-3111 Email: NYDads@Delphi.com   Fathers' Rights Council http://www.netblaze.com/fathers   Fathers Rights Foundation http://www.fathers-rights.com   Fathers' Rights Metro (1) Givon Zirkind, 4416 18th Avenue, Box 324, Brooklyn, NY 11204, USA. (2) James Wilks, P.O.Box 313143, Jamaica, N.Y.11431, USA. Ph.: 718-260-6915. Father's Rights National Headquarters 1730 K St NW, Ste 340 Washington, DC 20006 PH: 202-508-3782 FAX: 202-331-3759  Fathers' Rights Organization, Allen McMahon, Esq., 1212 N. Broadway, Ste. 133, Santa Ana, CA 92701, USA. Ph.:714-547-5643.   Father's Rights To Custody (FRTC) P.O. Box 82764 Kenmore WA 98028-0764 http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/ Email: frtc@deltabravo.net Fathers United for Equal Justice (1) Tony Testa, P.O.Box 11602, Santa Ana, CA 92711, Ph.: (office) 714-542-3100.         (home) 714-892-0982. FAX: 714-892-0982. (2) Fathers United for Equal Justice, P.O. Box 1308 Nashua, NH 03061 Ph.: (603) 808-9389   Father's World Ph.: 1-888-316-8400. http://www.fathersworld.com For Better or Worth http://www.smh.com.au:80/news/0008/19/text/review4.html Gay Fathers Coalition, P.O. Box 50360, Washington, DC 20009-0360, USA. Gay Fathers Unlimited, 625 Post Street, Box 283 San Francisco, CA 94109, USA. Givon Zirkind's Homepage http://idt.net/~zirkind How to represent yourself without a lawyer http://www.how2.org/nolawyer/index.html Intact Families http://www.intactfamilies.org PO Box 6521, Branson, MO 65615-6521, USA info@intactfamilies.org Legal Kids http://www.legalkids.com Legislation for Kids and Dads, 1 Hiawatha Circle, Madison, WI 53711, USA. Ph.: (608) 274-1638. Lyncup Homepage http://www.crosswinds.net/~lyncp/index.htm Major Breakthrough for Parents in the European Human Rights Court Men & Fathers Resource Center http://www.menhotline.org 807 Brazos St., Suite 315, Austin, TX 78701-2508 USA Ph.: (512)472-3237 Fax (512)499-8056 Email: dads@fathers.org National Association for Fathers, 1075-D Railroad Ave. #111, Richmond, NY 10306, USA. Ph.: (718) 494-1719 BBS 1-800-HELP-DAD. (718) 983-5575 voice   National Coalition of Parents for Fathers' Rights, Michael Adelson, 6434 Farralone Ave., Woodland Hills, CA 91303, USA Ph.: 818-710-1161 x 8   National Congress for Men and Children, (1) Phillip J. Holman, Esq., Chair, Litigation Committee, c/o A Cross Wrock, 400 Renaissance Center, Suite 1900, Detroit, MI 48243, USA. Ph.: 313-259-1144. FAX: 313-259-8943. (2) Birmingham, Alabama Chapter, Bradley W. Barber, President, P.O. Box 6, Brookside, AL 35036, USA. v/FAX: 205-631-9733 205-674-8348. (3) P.O. Box 171675, Kansas City, Kansas 66117, USA. Ph.: (0800) 733-DADS (4) David Usher, 118 Oakwood, Webster Groves, MO 63119, USA. Ph.: (314) 961-5875 Fax: (314) 963-7562 Email: usher@mo.net Bulletin Board:(602) 840-4752   National Fathers' Rights Organization, P.O. Box 4001, Waukesha, WI 53187, USA. Ph.: 414-798-9000.   National Organization of Dads and Kids Inc., 50 Janis Way, Scotts Valley, CA 95066, USA. Ph.: (408) 494-0992.         (408) 438-6658 FAX: (408) 438-1257. Computer Bulletin Board: (408) 998-3237 E-mail: roberson@scruznet.com National Union of Fathers 102 W-H- Russell Lane, Harriman, Tennessee 37748, USA Nebraska Non-custodial parents PO Box 300 Boys Town, NE 68010-0300 (402) 330 - 4667 Non-Custodial Parent and Grandparent Organization http://www.iserv.net/~robbme/npago~1.htm P.O. Box 1731, Grand Rapids, MI 49501-1731, USA. Oklahoma Fatherhood Program and Consortium (COPE) Inc., 3033 N. Walnut, Suite 200W, OKC, OK 73105, USA. Ph.: (405)-524-COPE Email: LIBROS3@aol.com Oklahomans for Families Alliance 2805 NW 117th St. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 pager 405-499-4148 Emails: g.palumbo@worldnet.att.net okcopeinc@aol.com Parents And Children for Equality http://www.PACEgroup.org P.A.C.E., P.O. Box 8805, Cincinnati, OH 45208, USA. Ph.: 513-624-7223 Emails: pacegroup@fuse.net hubin.1@osu.edu Parents' Rights in Child Custody Disputes http://www.livingston.net/divorce/   Parents Without Rights Inc. http://members.aol.com/PWRFlorida/index.htm 3500 Galt Ocean Mile, Suite 517, Fort Lauderdale, Florida 33308, USA. Email: ParentsWithoutRights@iName.com Ph.: 954 564 0057 Fax: 954 563 9174  Petition on Law Change http://childrens-justice.org/petition-4-online.htm PRO-DAD (Parental Rights Org-Dads Against Discrimination), Tim Sanders, 1415 Donna, Novato, CA 94947, USA. Ph.: 415-897-8678. FAX: 415-421-4024. Second Wives http://www.secondwives.org Single and Custodial Fathers Network, Inc. One Parks Bend, Suite 213, Box 31, Vandergrift, PA 15690 USA Ph.: (724) 845-9767 Pennsylvania Hotline: (724) 388-DADS jsims@scfn.org Single Fathers Research Project, 2901 Jefferson Drive, Greenville, NC 27834, USA.   Society for the Preservation of Family Relationships c/o 172 Berlin Dr., Knoxville, TN. 37923 Ph.: (423) 694-8834 Email: S77@cosmail4.ctd.ornl.gov Stu's Fathers' Rights Page http://www.geocities.com/CapitolHill/2909 Texas Fathers Alliance 807 Brazos St., Suite 315 Austin, TX 78701 (512) 472-DADS E-mail: texas_fathers_alliance@Juno.com Texas Fathers for Equal Rights, P.O. Box 12393, Austin, Texas 78711, USA. Ph.: 512-472-DADS Texas Fathers for Equal Rights (Austin) P.O. Box 12393 Austin, TX 78711 Ph.: (512) 916-3TEX E-mail: Texas_Fathers@Juno.com Texas Fathers for Equal Rights (Dallas) 1600 Pacific, Suite 870 Dallas, Texas 75201 (214) 953-2233 E-mail: finsd1@aol.com Texas Fathers for Equal Rights (Houston) P.O. Box 61249 Houston, TX 77208 (713) 960-0407 E-mail: tferhous@neosoft.com United Fathers of America United Fathers Forum http://www.enol.com/~uff/events.htm   United Fathers of America, (1) 11600 Washington Place, Ste. 101, Los Angeles, CA 90066, USA. Ph.: (home) 310-398-9715. (work) 310-390-1273. FAX: 310-390-6451. (2) 595 The City Drive, Ste. 202, Orange, CA 92668, USA. Ph.: 714-385-1002. (3) 506 Second Avenue, Suite 1532, Seattle, WA 98104, USA. Ph.: (206) 623-5050 (4) United Fathers of Washington State, Smith Tower, Suite 1521 Seattle, WA Ph.: (206) 623-5050 Email GFlanzer@medio.net (5) 12304 Santa Monica Blvd., Suite 300, West Los Angeles, Calif. 90025, USA. Ph.: (1-800) 540-1273 (310) 442-8575 We The People http://www.wevote.com Wisconsin Fathers for Equal Justice, P.O. Box 1742, Madison, WI 53701, USA. Ph.: (608) ALL-DADS  Bulletin Boards (United States) Fatherboard-North (302) 737-6041 FathernetBBS (718) 494-1719 National Organization of Dads and Kids (408) 998-3237 Books and Articles Abraham, Jed H. (2000): From Courtship to Courtroom: What Divorce Law is doing to Marriage. ISBN: 0-8197-0692-2. NY: Bloch Publishing Company, Inc. http://www.blochpub.com/ AEfK: Urteil in der Sache Elsholz gegen Deutschland. Human Rights case won by a father. http://www.gabnet.de/aefk/egmr-elsholz-deutschland1.htm Braver, Sanford L. with Diane O'Connell (1998): Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths. New York: Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam. ISBN 0-87477-862-X. Brott, Armin A. The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Fathers-to-Be. Abbeville Press. Hardcover, ISBN 0-7892-0417-7. Paperback, ISBN 1-55859-690-9 Brott, Armin A. The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year. Abbeville Press. Hardcover, ISBN 0-7892-0418-5. Paperback, ISBN 0-7892-0275-1 Brott, Armin A. The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the Toddler Years. Abbeville Press. Hardcover, ISBN 0-7892-0480-0. Paperback, ISBN 0-7892-0396-0 Brott, Armin A. (1999): The Single Father: A Dad's Guide to Parenting without a Partner. Abbeville Press Burgess, Adrienne (1997): Fatherhood Reclaimed. Vermilion. Farrell, Warren (2001): Father and Child Reunion http://www.dxmarket.com/worldnetdaily/products/B0094.html Fay, Robert (1995): "Disenfranchised Father". American Journal of Family Law, Spring 1995. Fay, Robert (1995): "Joint Custody of Infants and Toddlers". in: Family Law Handbook. NY:Wiley. Fehlinger, Margit (1998): Sie Wollen "Echte" Vaeter Sein. "Frankfurter Rundschau" 30 September 1998 and "Presse und Sprache" December 1998. Fergusson, David & L. John Horwood (1998): Adoption and Adjustment in Adolescence. in: Adoption and Fostering Vol. 22, No.1, pp. 24-30. Gallagher, Maggie (19??): "The Abolition of Marriage -- How We Destroy Lasting Love" Regerny Publishing. Giudubaldi, John (2001): "Where's Daddy ? The Mythologies Behind Custody-Access-Support" http://wheres-daddy.com ISBN 0-9674736-5-9 Harbinger Press http://harbpress.com/ Isaacs, Ronald L., J.D. (19??): The Guide to Fathers' Rights. Fathers' Rights Council. http://www.netblaze.com/fathers Laframboise, Donna (1999): "How to end the war against divorced dads" National Post Tuesday, March 28, 2000 http://www.nationalpost.com/network.asp?f=000328/244153.html Motluk, Alison (1999): "Daddy Doesn't Live Here Any More" New Scientist, 20 February 1999, page 15. New Zealand Education Development Foundation (2001): "War on the Family: How U.N. Conventions on Women's and Children's Rights Undermine Family, Religion, and National Sovereignty." http://www.nzedf.org.nz Pfeil, Sherri (1999 ): "Not for Women Only: Single Dads Struggle for Work/Family Balance" http://www.employmentreview.com/1999-12/features/CNfeat04.asp Phillips, Roderick (1982): "Divorce in New Zealand". Oxford University Press Pizzey, Erin (1997): The Planned Destruction of the Family. Male View magazine, ISSN 1361-1968, October/December 1997, pp. 3-7. Pruett, Kyle D. (1995): The Paternal Presence in: "Becoming a Father" ed.:J.Shapiro, M. Diamond, & M. Greenberg. New York:Springer. Sydney Morning Herald (19 August 2000): For Better or Worth http://www.smh.com.au:80/news/0008/19/text/review4.html United Kingdom Men's Movement (199?): Marriage and Fatherhood (Important Information for Young Men). United Kingdom Men's Movement (199?): The Emperor's New Clothes (Divorce Process and Consequence) United Kingdom Men's Movement (1998): Divorce: The Facts You Need to Know but Might Not be Told by a Lawyer. Vandenberg, Marita (2000): Expert Warns of Childcare "Damage". Wellington, New Zealand: Contact newspaper, April 6th 2000. Washington Post (2000): Avoiding and Reacting. Sunday December 24, 2000. http://washingtonpost.com/ac2/wp-dyn/A46114-2000Dec23 Weston, Louanne Cole (1998): Sex Matters: Bargaining for Sex Just Doesn't Work Out. http://www.onhealth.com/ch1/columnist/column/0,1005,14930,00.htm Woods, Barry (1981): Father-power: A Father's Guide to Family Law, Child Custody and Access in Marriage Breakdown. New Zealand Edition. Published by the Author, PO Box 62-060, Auckland 6, New Zealand. Worldwide Christian Divorced Fathers (19??): Divorce Without Court. Albuquerque, New Mexico. Young, Cathy (1999): Let's Agree: Fatherhood Does Matter. http://www.detnews.com/EDITPAGE/9907/28/young/young.htm Zander, Joep (2000): Joep Zander versus the State of the Netherlands http://huizen.daxis.nl/zander/facts.htm Periodicals DAD Newsletter (Journal of Samvaer og Foraeldreansvar), Editor Bent Egberg Mikkelsen, H. Ibsensvej 26 - 4, DK 1813 Frederiksberg C, Denmark Email: bem@teksam.ruc.dk Dads 6 Stathe Cottages, Burrowridge, Taunton, TA7 OJL, England. Family Law Reform, 2547 Noriega St. #333, San Francisco, CA 94122, USA. Fathering Magazine http://www.fathermag.com Fathers and Families P.O. Box 67398, Los Angeles, California 90067, USA. Fathers' National Review, Dads Against Discrimination, 5th Floor, Oregon Pioneer Building, 320 SW Stark Street,Portland,OR 97204-2632, USA. Fathers' Rights and Equality Exchange, 701 Welch Rd. #323, Palo Alto, CA 94304, USA. Fathers' Rights Newsline, P.O.Box 713, Havertown, PA 19083, USA. Full Time Dads, P.O. Box 577, Cumberland, ME 04021, USA. Nuance (International Journal of Family Policy and Related Issues) http://www.nuancejournal.com.au/ Nuevos Padres CRAMER 4031, BUENOS AIRES-, ARGENTINA (1429) Phone: 054-1-7030613, 054-1-15-4906295, 054-1-15-4736002. E-MAIL mail@anupa.com.ar Today's Dad, P.O. Box 1742, Madison, WI 53701, USA. http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm The Truth on Domestic Violence http://nzmera.orcon.net.nz/altmrfaq.html alt.mens-rights FAQ http://www.landwave.com/family/ More Truth on DV http://nzmera.orcon.net.nz/menlinks.html 1000 Men's/Dads' Links http://www.calib.com/nccanch/pubs/factsheets/canstats.cfm Child Abuse Statistics An "indigenous" people is that which committed the last local genocide http://nzmera.orcon.net.nz/contents.html Sex, Lies & Feminism